A successful life or an incomplete one?

 The incidence happened few days ago. I was in pune for my campus interview, suddenly I had message from my sister saying a girl from her class committed suicide, By hanging herself to fan.

Initially I was shocked, obviously she was of my sister age hardly 18 years old. What might have caused to take such decision?  My sister said she was disturbed from few days, maybe boyfriend problem. Some days ago even I heard some shocking news about the girls from my classroom while we were gossiping among ourselves. I said that how girls behave so irresponsibly where we have so different thought process going on in this age. When we hear something like this we get shocked only.

Even though we are free to do whatever we want to do as being an independent women, aren’t there any limits we should have? We see so many incidence happening around us. We make huge regrets about the place of women in our society, isn’t this our responsibility to at least keep our dignity?

 I have seen some my friends life getting wasted due to this boyfriends and similar things, everyday I hear so many incidence from my sister about her friends.   

I wander why would they behave such? Is just wandering with so called love, enjoying (actually ruining) those days which are so important to built the life is so easy? Just today our one teacher said once you ruin your first 20 years of your life you can never be successful in your entire life. Maybe this isn’t totally accepted but it has a little meaning, as once we never have that maturity in the proper age we can never expect ourselves to understand seriousness of life.

I am not at all denying the relationships, love affairs to be the part of our life, those are obviously the best memories of our life, but this is even true if these relationships resulting into such ugly incidence what’s the use of our love interests?

Obviously our life isn’t only of ourselves, our parents, siblings have so many dreams, hopes from us. Is it right to end the only life we get for such miner things?

Actually I think the main base of our healthy mind and ability to choose what’s right for us lies within ourselves. We are the only once who can change our fate. And for that we only need to believe and understand where we want to end up. A successful life or an incomplete one?

Being on your own...

Phew…heartbeats are increasing. Going to face first interview of my life. This all seems so unreal. In nearly three months I will be a graduate, and hoping to be on my own. This is the dream I have been waiting for myself, to have a job, achievements and enough money to live on my own.

I wonder what my father might have felt during this period of him. But I think this is kind of amazing phase in everyone’s life. We grow, we go to school, we complete education, we get a job. And in the mean time watching at ourselves in the past seems so far.

I found a book recently “the secret”. Well it says you get all you want in your life if you wish for it with your heart and remain persistent about the wish. I think this is best way to give your best for whatever you want in your life. We think that our future is unseen and its unpredictable. But according to book it says whatever we are now is the result of our thoughts back in our past. We get exactly the same we wish for. So now I won’t say I don’t know where I will be in next 5 years, rather I would say I know where I will be.

I am going to be an independent woman, living in a metro city, my heart full of hopes and dreams about my future. I am going to live my life exactly the same way I wished it would be. J

So to being matured and taking first step into adulthood.  Wish me luck everyone…J