Today i had a brief meet with one of my friends. We were not really that close before but since we had been together in all the process of our admissions and we got the same college, its the things that still makes us friends here at my new college.
Well the things we talked about included our studies, some short notifications of our college updates, and yeah of course girls and relationships. for an instance i said that i might end up doing a arranged marriage. and he said, you will find someone really good because you are good. :D well he just said the sentence i felt the sudden change of the concept of marriage and all the entire life i still have in front of me.
The relativity makes us think of the time in a different manner as we may feel that its really moving slowly when we are in a boring lecture, and when we are with someone we know and feel comfortable with it seems to be finishing immediately. For whatever life or time i spent till now, i always felt that its all so huge and so complicated. our living, even small things like growing up,being an adult, taking responsibilities seems really frightening task sometimes. but when he said that sentence as if he made it all just so simple.
Well absolutely it is not simple, but when we think about it as a future projection it seems something never happening or unbelievable.
but we have a fuzzy feeling at the back of our mind, and slowly that image turns brighter and brighter and finally it emerges as the clearer picture.
Its not always unexpected, as it happens just like we thought.
Well i still have a long way to go. I have a blurred image of me being a independent person and in a affectionate relationship and a responsible adult.
:) anyway so gotta work for that then...
and think of the best that the blurred image will clear soon with amazing colors... :)
Well the things we talked about included our studies, some short notifications of our college updates, and yeah of course girls and relationships. for an instance i said that i might end up doing a arranged marriage. and he said, you will find someone really good because you are good. :D well he just said the sentence i felt the sudden change of the concept of marriage and all the entire life i still have in front of me.
The relativity makes us think of the time in a different manner as we may feel that its really moving slowly when we are in a boring lecture, and when we are with someone we know and feel comfortable with it seems to be finishing immediately. For whatever life or time i spent till now, i always felt that its all so huge and so complicated. our living, even small things like growing up,being an adult, taking responsibilities seems really frightening task sometimes. but when he said that sentence as if he made it all just so simple.
Well absolutely it is not simple, but when we think about it as a future projection it seems something never happening or unbelievable.
but we have a fuzzy feeling at the back of our mind, and slowly that image turns brighter and brighter and finally it emerges as the clearer picture.
Its not always unexpected, as it happens just like we thought.
Well i still have a long way to go. I have a blurred image of me being a independent person and in a affectionate relationship and a responsible adult.
:) anyway so gotta work for that then...
and think of the best that the blurred image will clear soon with amazing colors... :)
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